According to Deepak Chopra’s book, “Quantum Health,” we are
not the same person we were seven years ago. After seven years, every single
cell in our body has completely regenerated. We are simply a clone of who we
used to be and every part of us, including our brain, is completely brand new.
So I started looking back at each seven year cycle of my life
and wrote down my random thoughts.
When I was seven, I reached what the Catholics called the
age of awareness, the age where we can actually sin because we gain awareness
of our own actions. I remember my father telling me he would stop throwing
birthday parties for me because I had reached maturity and didn’t need them
anymore. It is true that I gained great awareness between the ages of 7-14. I
attended four different schools and lived in two different countries, all the
while comparing each experience with one of the past and seeing how all people
are different and how they are all the same.
When I was fourteen, teenage rebellion hit and I realized
that my father’s choice to stop throwing me birthday parties had nothing to do
with me coming of age but more to do with the fact that he’s lazy. I mean jeez,
I was only seven!
Fourteen
was the start of my goth period which lasted throughout my seven year cycle. I wasn’t goth on the outside. I could care less
for my outside appearance, despite my mother’s fight to get me to wear decent
clothes. I must admit my disinterest for material things left no room for
fashion. I was definitely goth on the inside. I started reading gothic texts
like John Donne and Alister Crowly and William Shakespeare. I threw myself into
the existential absurdity of Sam Beckett as I tried to make sense of the
absurdity of my own life.
Strangely enough, it was also the cycle of boys. Looking
back, I still don’t understand how a young girl who had no fashion sense and
always had her head in a book managed to attract so much attention from the
opposite sex, but I guess I can chalk it all up to hormones. Also chalk it up
to the fact that I got really athletic at this age, which is good because
energy is often wasted on the youth and if I didn’t have books and athletics, I’d
probably have been in a lot of trouble despite my strict upbringing.
My goth period came to a close at the age of 21, the start
of a brand new seven year cycle. I was so ready for change that I left
everything I knew and love and moved to the other side of the country. I left
behind all my mystical, psychic and witchcraft books to witness the gritty
world of art in New York City. Who needed metaphysics when you had art? I also got a tattoo which turned out to be permanent despite the fact that our body regenerates every seven years. Shrug.
This seven year cycle would be all about action. I took my
head out of the books to actually do things and make something of myself. I
didn’t just read and write, I acted and produced plays. I worked with directors
and actors. I stopped playing the field and got married. I had a baby and moved
back to Los Angeles to be a mom. I was so many people during this period, you
couldn’t pigeon hole me if you tried. Guess I was learning to be a strong,
modern woman.
At the age of 28, I reinvented myself. I became certified in
fitness and personal training. I became a working mom who could balance the husband,
home, children and a job that she loved. Ugh, now that I think of it, I sound
like some kind of stereotype of someone with a perfect life but things always look better from the outside. It was a struggle in many
ways, financially and relationship-wise. I never lost my love of writing and
managed to work on making one of my old plays into a novel which I plan to
release this month.
35 marked the start of a new cycle. Strangely enough, that
was the year I published my first book, “Fireflies.” I split myself into three
people. One is in charge of her business, one writes and publishes books and
one is a devoted mother and wife. Strange how I somehow figured out to be
everything I want to be and I’m finally publishing a book I’ve been working on
for 13 years, while going through life. I’m still in this cycle and if you know
what year I published “Fireflies,” you could probably guess my age.
There is so much potential in this cycle. I realize that
after the end of every seven year cycle, I look back and am amazed at what I have
done and how I have grown. Chopra said that when you have cancer, its never the
same cancer because the cells die and reproduce. It’s our memory of cancer that
keeps it there. Cancer is just a bad habit. If we don’t heal, if we can’t change,
its because we refuse too. We are addicted to a blue print that is nothing but
a memory. We attach ourselves to these memories long after the structures have been
broken down. I guess it helps that I’m in a cycle of great awareness. I know I
can change how I think. I don’t have to stay glued to a little girl who is no
longer there. Chopra says there is a world of infinite possibilities out there.
What happens next? Sky’s the limit.
